This Ain’t The Life! Mendeecees Gets 8 Years!

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BABY!! Reality shows star husbands are getting locked up left and right!

Love & Hip Hop New York’s star Mendeecees Harris gets eight years after pleading guilty to drug-trafficking charges. Mendeecees Harris says he takes full responsibility in an Instagram post.

I want you all to understand something. I completely accept responsibility for all that is going on. My transition to be a better person a productive person started well before this case. However in my past I made some bad decisions. Young men let my life be an example to you now before it’s too late. Better who you are now in your children’s lives and in society so you can change the path of your fate. Lack of opportunities, a fatherless home, the unforgiven neighborhood and circumstances you grew up in can no longer be your excuse. Trust me I tried. And it doesn’t make the pain your family feels any different. Young man educate your self and break the cycle. Don’t become a number on the DOA (dead on arrival) list or on the incarceration list. To my wife and children you are all strong and well prepared for this. This is just another brick laid down towards our house of happily ever after , walk with your head held high knowing I would never past the buck and put another family through what we have endured. Continue to walk in faith and love as you’ve done so well. To my peoples thank you for all the encouragement and support please continue to encourage my family. Thank you again all.

A photo posted by Mendeecees Harris (@mendeecees) on

When I first heard the news I didn’t feel sorry for him.  I just didn’t quite get why people were feeling sorry and praying for him. Not to mention, that I’ve never met this man and never watched Love & Hip Hop New York. Incarceration sometimes destroys families. and Secondly, this man has kids and a family makes me feel a little sympathy for him. We don’t know what motivated him to do what he did. If he is willing to accept what he did was wrong that makes him a good man in my eyes.

My girl KMichelle also had some encouraging words for him and his family.

Where do I start? It’s late and I’m just leaving the studio but honestly this is heavy on my heart. @yandysmith and @mendeecees I respect u both dearly. Yandy, your dedication and love for your husband is not only motivational to me but inspiring. I’ve been in several relationships but never truly valued love. My motto has been hurt them, before they hurt me. After being apart of your wedding and just witnessing the loyalty and determination to not give up on love and make your family work it opened my eyes. I realized I was loving wrong. Love isn’t for cowards and that’s what I was a coward numb to any emotion. My words were just lies to play the role. I can honestly say I had NEVER truly been in love with any man in my life. I just hated sleeping alone. We all make mistakes and even though @mendeecees is having to pay for them now, his fight to get his life right and love his family is so promising and real. You guys are the definition on REAL black love. In a world where men would much rather run from commitment and think it’s cool to collect hearts you guys are the real deal. The last four months I decided to be honest with myself and finally let my guard down and try out love, and I must say you guys gave me the courage to do that. Who knows what will happen, but I do know I won’t be settling or accepting anything other than the purest and ultimate attention, time, and respect towards me, and I will do the same. And if they can’t be that to me, there’s no me in the equation. You guys rock. Kiss the babies, me and Sklar still have an ice cream date coming up! Allow this test to be your testimony and inspire others. I Love yall❤️ Time will fly he will be home before you know it Yandy❤️ A photo posted by K. Michelle (@kmichellemusic) on


Let’s wish Mendeeecess the best. Furthermore, I hope his message “touch n agree” with some to understand that for every action there is a reaction.


Do you think Mendeecees will serve all eight years?